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Things to be aware of

First things first! I have a regular job and often work more than 12 hours a day, and I have a family and a home to spend time with and care for. No offense to you; I am sure you are pretty epic, but family and life away from the computer always take priority.

I never check email on Saturday or Sunday, especially not on holidays.

Social Media might happen, depending on who I am this week. (If you don’t get that reference, we cannot be friends… just kidding.)

The “Someone did these things, so I must bring it up" list.

*** Top of my NO list… I hate that I have to bring this up; I shouldn’t have to be bringing this up… but... I do not tolerate rudeness. Swearing at me in emails or on social media will not get you a quicker response. It will get you blocked, and you will not get any form of reply from me.

I will move your form of contact into my “Parents didn’t give them enough attention, or dropped them on their heads one too many times” folder.

*** Considering I have in various areas of this website stated that duskyillusions.com is not a business website for me; it is a hobby website, sending the following to me will put you right in the trash can:

  1. "Hi team duskyillusions.com," There is no team; I am just a humble little blogger who likes to write her thoughts out. Pay attention...
  2. "What if I told you that within just 24 hours, you could have a comprehensive list of potential business clients ready for you to connect with?"  As a businesswoman, I would never do business with someone who doesn't take the time to read, comprehend, or follow instructions. Waste of my time and yours.
  3.  "They can show a solution to a problem or simply promote one of your products or services. "  Again, you aren't paying attention; I don't do business, period, with anyone that has the attention span of a fruit fly. Please see #1 and #2 again; your attention span might have dwindled before you finished reading this sentence.
  4. "Make sure to enter your full business name and duskyillusions.com inside the request form to activate your free trial."  See #1, # 2, and #3 plus spam much? Really? There are other issues with this, but who am I to accuse...
  5. Other spam, like a defrost your food quick mail.
  6. Requesting a link back to a page with obvious "stolen content," and only 3 of them at that...
  7. Sending me requests for you to write an article for my hobby blog without linking me to anywhere I can see your work or a snippet of your work. I may not be the greatest writer, but my work is mine, not some PLR content or ripped off blatantly from someone else's website. See #6.


I hate that I must keep clarifying things because people can't pay attention or need something to do besides trying to con others. I reserve the right to add to this list as needed. Man, I hope I don't have to. I would like to be able to have a little faith in common sense and decency again.

I am all for beneficial mutual partnerships. I reserve the right to decline if you email me for a link addition to my resource page or link list. Before I consider endorsing someone, I must feel confident in what you provide my readers.

I also check to see if you are still a beneficial mutual partner. If you have taken your link from my site after I add yours to mine, I will delete your link. Yes, I check nowadays. Some people don’t understand what the words “beneficial,” “mutual,” or “partnership” mean.

Connect With Me On Social Media

I love connecting with people on social media; new friends make me happy.

Sometimes, a hello and friendly chat is more fun on social media, and you can often engage “more like real-time,” whereas email feels much too business-like.

Guest Posting:

I get many requests for guest posts, many of which come off as scams/spam. I don’t pay for guest posts on this website.

I should consider creating a page and mail form specifically for Guest Post requests; it should help minimize the spam emails I get if they have to go to another page to read the requirements and suggestions to do a guest post.

Well, that is the theory, and so, we shall see what pans out down the road.

Contact Me

Contact me by Email.

For General questions, feedback, and comments, link-up requests, you can email me using the form on this page. It can take me up to 72 hours to respond to an email. If your option is not there, you can hit Something Else.

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